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Decluttering the Past, To Make Space For What's Next

A sparse living room, minimalist style. Text; "Life Simplified"

A Mindset Shift:

You’ve spent decades nurturing your family, advancing your career, and juggling life’s many responsibilities. You’ve been the caretaker, the multitasker, the manager, and the planner. Maybe you’ve raised kids, launched businesses, led teams, or all of the above. But now, something is shifting inside of you—something is asking for space.

That space isn’t just physical—it’s emotional and mental, too.
It’s the kind of space that lets you breathe deeper, think clearer, and feel aligned with who you are today—not just who you were 10 or 20 years ago.

I understand this deeply because I’ve walked through my own transitions. For 15 years, I worked in the broadcast television industry—a world that thrived on deadlines, pressure, and constant motion. Then I pivoted into professional organizing, helping others reclaim peace and flow in their homes and offices. I’ve also explored my creative side through travel and crafting, diving into the things that spark joy in my soul.

And yet, life continues to evolve.

Now, I’m a caregiver for my elderly parent—a new chapter filled with both purpose and responsibility. This role has taught me some of life’s most meaningful lessons, the most profound being this: When we simplify our surroundings, we give ourselves the clarity and calm needed to face what truly matters. 

In this post, you'll learn how to simplify your space for the life you want next. I want to guide you through a process that isn’t just about tidying up. It’s about organizing for life transitions and reimagining your space for your next season of life—whatever that may be. It’s about letting go, creating room, and finding freedom in simplicity.


๐ŸŒฟ Step 1: Let Go of Old Roles with Compassion

As we grow and change, so should our homes. But so often, our spaces continue to reflect roles we’ve outgrown—silent echoes of past seasons that no longer serve our current lives.

Maybe it’s the playroom filled with toys no one has touched in years.
Maybe it's the closet full of suits and heels from a job you left—or outgrew.
Maybe it's the hobby corner full of supplies from a phase that no longer brings you joy.

These things are not "just stuff." They’re symbols of identity, and that’s why it’s hard to let go. But letting go doesn’t mean erasing your past. It means honoring it.

Start small. Hold each item with a gentle mindset. Ask:

  • What role did this play in my life?
  • Do I still need this to tell my story?
  • Can I release this with gratitude and trust that it’s okay to move forward?

When we declutter from a place of compassion, it becomes less about loss and more about liberation.


๐Ÿ“š Step 2: Start Small—One Category at a Time

One of the biggest mistakes people make when decluttering is trying to do too much, too fast. It becomes overwhelming. That’s why I always encourage starting with just one category at a time.

Categories could include:

  • Books
  • Kitchen gadgets
  • Beauty products
  • Craft supplies
  • Office files
  • Shoes and handbags

Choose a category that feels emotionally light to begin with. Save sentimental items like photos and keepsakes for last, or when you've built up some decision-making confidence.

Here’s the key:
There is no wrong way to declutter. Go with your gut, because anything you do is good enough. But try not to jump from one category to another. Decluttering works best when you go deep—not wide. Focus on completing onecategory fully before moving on to the next. That way, you'll actually see and feel progress. And by taking this approach and you’ll discover that you are building momentum.


โฑ๏ธ The 15-Minute Daily Decluttering Habit

You don’t need an entire weekend or a full day off to make progress. In fact, some of the most transformative changes come in small, consistent increments. Just 15 minutes a day—yes, just one-quarter of an hour—is all it takes to begin reshaping your home and your mindset.

Here’s how it works:

  1. Set a timer for 15 minutes.
  2. Choose one drawer, one shelf, or one small zone within your current category.
  3. Declutter without distractions. Put your phone on silent. Turn on calming music if you like.
  4. Sort items into “Keep,” “Toss”, ”Recycle”, “Donate,” or piles.
  5. Stop when the timer goes off. No pressure to continue. You did your part for the day.

Repeat this daily, and you’ll be amazed by how much you can accomplish in a week, a month, or a season. Little by little becomes a lot.


๐Ÿ“ Step 3: Journal and Digitally Preserve What Matters

Decluttering isn’t just a physical act—it’s a reflective one, too. As you clear your space, keep a journal nearby, or simply keep a mental note about how you feel. Use it to capture the emotional shifts you're experiencing. You can write down questions like:

  • What emotions come up as I let go of this item?
  • What kind of space am I creating, and for what purpose?
  • What do I want my home to feel like now?

Journaling helps you stay connected to your why, making the process more intentional.

But what about the items you’re emotionally attached to—especially sentimental keepsakes?

This is where digital preservation becomes a beautiful tool. Take photos of cherished objects before letting them go. These could be:

  • Childhood art
  • Heirloom linens
  • Old greeting cards
  • Trophies, awards, or mementos

Create a digital album or go one step further and design a printed keepsake photo book. You’ll have a beautiful, compact way to honor those memories without holding on to the physical clutter. This can be incredibly freeing—you get to preserve the memory without the burden of storage or guilt.

Letting go becomes so much easier when you know the story isn’t lost—it’s just living in a new form.


๐Ÿ“Œ Step 4: Use Pinterest to Visualize What’s Next

Once you’ve started releasing what no longer fits, it’s time to get excited about what could be.. 

This is your opportunity to be creative, intentional, and even playful. Learning how to create a vision for your space takes practice. Start by creating a Pinterest board and name it something that reflects your “Next Chapter" or “A New Vision, A New Me.” Fill your (digital) vision board with images that reflect the kind of life and environment you’re drawn to now:

  • Cozy reading nooks
  • Minimalist kitchens
  • Peaceful bedrooms
  • Craft spaces or wellness corners
  • Natural materials, neutral tones, calming colors

Your board will become your roadmap. It doesn’t have to be perfect or expensive—it just needs to represent how you want to feel in your home. And as you continue to declutter, you’ll begin shaping your space to mirror those inspirations.


โœจ Final Thoughts: This Is the Beginning of a Beautiful Shift

Life is made up of seasons—and each one asks us to let go of something in order to embrace what’s next. Whether you're stepping into retirement, caring for aging parents, rediscovering your passions, or simply craving a slower, more grounded lifestyle, your home should evolve to support your needs—not keep you tethered to the past.

Decluttering is not about deprivation.
It’s about choosing freedom.
It’s about curating your environment to align with your values, your energy, and your dreams and It is possible to learn how to organize your home when you’re in the midst of a life transition. 

Start small.
Start today.
Set that timer for 15 minutes.
Pick one category.
Take one photo.
Write one thought in your journal.

And little by little, you’ll begin to feel lighter, clearer, and more in control—not just of your space, but of your life.

Need a partner in this journey?
If you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure where to start, I’m here to help. Together, we can create a plan that works for your home and your life—one that honors your past while embracing your future.

Reach out to me; Elizabeth Lulu Miranda, at info@mercuryorganizing.com. Visit my website, www.mercruyorganizing.com or follow me on Instagram @mercuryorganizing for daily inspiration and practical tips on creating a life—and space—you love.


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Blog post by Elizabeth Lulu Miranda. Lulu has been working as a home and office organizer in Chicago for over 15 years. She brings new perspectives on how to have an organized life. Writing for the Mercury Organizing blog “Creating the Flow". 


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